Please Help

Hello, my name is Jackie and I am 18 years old. I just recently got pregnant with my fiance` of 1yr`s baby and we aren`t getting married until either October21, 2006 or July 27, 2007. We are having a red and black theme wedding but there is a lot of white and a hint of gold here and there. I had my dress picked out and almost bought but the lady where I was buying it ruined it. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas for decorations that are very costly but also looks classy. Also I don`t know where we are going to get married...we live in New Port Richey FL. Please help us figure all this out and I really appreciate all of your help!

PS...if we get married in October, is there anyway of having a wedding dress and not look so pregnant?