First Time Bride At 35. He Is A 2nd Timer. Who Pays?

My daughter is 35. (a career college student) She has been on her own for several years now. And, does not have a dime to her name! Her boyfriend, dvorced and doesn`t have a dollar to his name. He went in hock for the ring. The question is: Isn`t she a little old for mom and dad to be paying for a wedding now? She is one of four sisters and the second to be getting married.