Mother In Law

Omg I dont know what to do..i love my boyfriend but the thought of living with his mother drives me crazy. His mother is a widow and is known to have quiet a tongue but to my boyfriend she is the greatest women alive. She basiclly lives with him because she dousnt have a job and dousnt know much english? He already let me know that if i cant accept living his mother then we cant be together... HELPPP IM SO CONFUSED ANY ADVICE
Posted by Fatima; updated 05/30/06

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Im sorry to hear that. I will try to be as nice as possible without offending anyone.

I have been in a situation before with someone who was a mama`s boy -

If he is not going to put you #1 in his life and is already giving you conditions you have to live by just to be with him -

Honey - go find yourself a real man who can stand on his own 2 feet without having to be glued to his mother.

If he is allowing his mother to control things now - and if he is putting his mother as the #1 woman in his life - it will ALWAYS be that way .

And if she cared at all about her son and his future she would get a job and live her own life instead of being so attached to her son. She would let him move on with his life instead of trying to live her life through him !

I am not saying you should not love your parents and show respect - but it sounds like the line has been crossed here !!

Flat out ask your boyfriend who is #1 in his life. Sounds to me he has already given you a choice - take things the way they are or leave.

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Posted by Kelly; updated 06/01/06