Seeking Mental Help.....
Hi, im just expresing my feelings that`s all. Wellll MIL I`had never thought that my life will be so bad. My MIL was not happpy with my first pregnecy.....i was so depress and I had misscarriage. I dont know why some people don`t let anyone to be happy. I worshiped her as my parents taught me, you should respect elders.......but she never happy. I always helped her in kitchen and never let her do dishes. But she always jealouse with me. And pushing me from the kitchen. I don`t know how to teach her this relation. I always give her respect but she ignore this. I DON`T KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS?????????? Some time i tried to do suicide. My husband knows everything but he don`t want to take any action. Tell me what should I do???????????? I have a small hight and she insulted me infront of her neigbours. When i got married i was 120 pound now im only 97 pound. Now i don`t worship GOD coz now i don`t trust on GOD. Iam helpless........plz help me before i sacrifice with my life.
Posted by depress; updated 05/04/06
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Please get proffesional help before making a drastic and irreversible desition such as ending your life! Your MIL is NOT worth it!!!! you write that you don`t know what she wants and you may never know, she does not know what she wants her self. What is important is for you to know what YOU want. Proffessional help will assist you in figuring out what you want, figuring yourself out first. I suggest that you search on the yahoo yellow pages a CRISIS HOT LINE or SUICIDE HOT LINE phone numbers and talk to someone I belive that you can even do it without giving your name, 24hrs a day, 7 days a week.
Also, Please read the following:
"An abusive relationship can be defined as a pattern of behavior that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner. This includes any behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame, injure or wound someone. Domestic violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender. It can happen to couples who are married, living together or who are dating. Domestic violence affects people of all backgrounds and education levels.
If you or someone you know is frightened about something in your relationship, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233). Help is available 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Hotline advocates are available for victims and anyone calling on their behalf to provide crisis intervention, safety planning, information and referrals to agencies in all 50 states, Puerto Rico and the U.S. Virgin Islands. Assistance is available in English and Spanish with access to more than 140 languages through interpreter services. All calls to the National Domestic Violence Hotline are confidential."
Posted by Maria; updated 05/04/06
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I wanted to add that I am very sorry for your loss. Big part of you being depressed is that you are mourning the loss of your baby, you have every right to be sad and grieve. But it sounds like your MIL and husband do not respect and validate your feelings at all. I`m sorry and I hope that you do get help, start with a phone call as suggested in the previous message. I also understand that you do not trust God at this time because you feel that "he" is putting you through sufferage, it is also part of the grief prosses to be angry, IT"S OK. I`ll be praying for you and I wish you the best. Please get help!!!!!!!!
Posted by Maria; updated 05/04/06
