Black White And Red Wedding Theme

I`m torn between a hippie/neutrals/casual wedding and a bold blk/wht/red theme...although everyone around me supports red/wht/blk over dreads+flowy casual dress ect. I saw a great dress on a wedding story (the tlc show) a long time ago that was white and had great black floral like embroidery alolng bottom and top (neck+back)..i`ve been looking non-stop on the interenet for a dress thats blk/wht and embroidered already but found only some bridesmaids gowns. The search engines hardly turn up good sites with many options for what im looking for. I`d hate to buy a dress and then have to pay xtra to go get embroidered especially when i cant even find a good design/pattern for the vines/florals id like. Anyone have any suggestions?