Marry The Man I Love? Or Family?
Hi my name is Mandee. I`m having some problems of being happy. See my boyfriend and I have been talking a lot about getting married, but my parents have never approved of him. I just don`t know how they (meaning my parents) could do this to me. I mean I am totally in love with this man who I want to have a future with but they are like putting a stop to it because they don`t like him. My family and I are really close and we always have been but now I don`t know what to do. I want to marry him but how can I do that if my parents will never accept him? What should I do? I love this man with all my heart but I know deep down inside my parents will never like him. I`m so confused. Should I make my parents happy and leave him and me be unhappy for the rest of my life? Or marry him and live happy in love but not have my parents?
Posted by Mandee; updated 04/19/06
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Hey well first wat about him irks your parents so much? have you put yourself in their shoes and see what they dislike about him? and second i understand how much you love your parents and want to stay that way but its about time you started thinking about your own happiness-- if you feel that this man is going to make you happy then why give up on a chance like that? what if this man is your soulmate and you might not find anyone else quite like him? i strongly believe that your parents will come around no matter wahat because the ayre you parents and they will understand you for following your heart -it may take awhile but trust me they will:) hope my advice helps!! email me if you need someone to talk to
Posted by jessica; updated 04/19/06
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There is a reason they dont like him !!! If you are this serious about each other and Family is also important to you.
The best advice I can give if for all 4 of you to sit down and talk about the future and discuss with your parents what their concerns are so you can straighten them out !
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Posted by Kelly; updated 04/20/06
