Please Help Me.......

I have been with my now fiance for 9 years (since we were 15!) Our wedding is a year and a half away (October 6, 2007). I have already taken a part-time job to help try and pay for this small wedding. I now hardly get to see my fiance. My parents want to help but my mom has recently been diagnosed with some expensive health problems. What else can I do? Does anyone know of any type of contests to win something toward our wedding? Please help! My e-mail is : sasaandchris318@hotmail.com Thanks!