Fiance`s Son`s Mother

Your fiance should be the one to step up and talk with his former "girlfriend". Because they have a child together does not mean she should be joining in the celebration. Would he want you to invite an "ex" to the wedding? This is a day for the two of you to celebrate. My daughter was married last summer. They both agreed that there would be no ex`s invited to the wedding even if they had remained friends. In fact, she had to make it a point to let one ex know not to show up. Your and your finace are forming a new family unit and he should be ready to step up and make you #1 in his life. If he can`t do this maybe you should do some serious praying about whether you should continue planning things or slow down. Marriage is a serious commitment. I`ve told my girls their not married until they say "I DO".