Is 19 To Young

Im 16 and i want to get married when im 19 im dating this guy and he talks about marriage.... I told him that i want to get married when im 19 but he thinks that its to young. But he will do it if thats what i really want. We will already have 4 years with each other, "if" he really is the one. I want to know if 19 really is to young.
Posted by kk; updated 02/20/06

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Kk,
Why 19? The best advise I can give you is to make sure you know where your own life is headed before you commit it to someone else. Marriage itself doesn`t have an age requirement. When it`s the right time, you`ll know. If you have any doubts, please wait, for your sake and his. Take care and good luck.
Posted by Carol; updated 02/20/06

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KK, you said it yourself, IF he`s the one. That says right away you are not sure. I agree with the other person that posted. Make sure your life is heading the right direction first. "IF" he is the one, he will not mind waiting. Get to know yourself first. An idea of a great goal at age 19 can be college. Don`t rush things or you will suffer the consequences later on. Wish you the best in everything!
Posted by Isabel; updated 02/20/06

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Kk, I also agree with the other girls I started living with my husband when I was 15 because I got pregnant at at a young age and even though we got married when I was 18 it is very hard first of all try to think about youre futureI and live youre life have fun and then think about getting married.
Posted by brenda; updated 02/22/06