2nd Wedding

Any suggestions for a Dallas wedding to be held this summer? This is a 2nd wedding with a child to be a part of the ceremony (5 yr. Old girl). I am 38 years old and don`t want the long white dress `thing" but something more mature and suitable for a 2nd wedding. ...butr still lovely and unique. In the Dallas area, does anyone have suggestions for a different type of place for the wedding and/or the reception? I really don`t want the typical "first" wedding with the elegant reception, carving station, white linens, formal centerpieces, etc. I`d love something more informal or casual or just a little different. Anyone with any thoughts? I just want to invite all our friends to have a great time at our celebration but feel no need to be the "star"...been there, done that!