What Should I Do ...
Of course I`ve seen this in movies, but I never thought this would happen to me. I`ve been interested in this woman for several years. She`s young, in her early 20s. For years, I didn`t see her often, but whenever I did, there was something between us. I didn`t ask her out becasue she`s always had a boyfriend. I think the same boyfriend. In December, I saw her and found out she was graduating, which meant I wouldn`t see her anymore. So, in early January, I sent an email asking her out for coffee. She was happy to hear from me, but mentioned she`s engaged. Through the course of several emails, it became clear that she has feelings for me, so I told her how I feel. She seems to feel the same way. She said she can`t stop thinking about me. What should I do?
Posted by Raphael; updated 02/03/06
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Leave her alone so she can figure out what she wants !
You are catching her at a vunerable stage in life - graduating, getting married etc... Dont be there to help her do something she may regret. This doesnt just affect her - she has someone else in her life to think about as well.
You dont even have a past with her, you never dated etc..
Move on and find someone who is available and not engaged to be married.
Posted by Kelea; updated 02/03/06
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You`re right. I wish you weren`t, but I know you are. Thanks for your help.
Posted by Raphael; updated 02/03/06