Do You Really Have To Have A Bachelor Party?

Hi everyone, I was just wondering how many people have bachelor/bachelorette parties. I don`t want to be around strippers and I sure as hell don`t want my fiance to be around strippers. No one in my family (my parents, grandparents, brothers and sisters never had bachelor/bachelorette parties. I just don`t see what the point of them is. I`d love to go out with the girls and my fiance go out with the guys, but are strippers really necessary? What do you guys think? Should I tell my boyfriend (soon to be fiance) I don`t want a bachelor party and I don`t want him to have one either? (By bachelor party I mean strippers will be there.) Thanks for your responses!
Posted by Melissa; updated 11/05/02

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I personally think a bachelorette party is necessary but it doesn`t have to include strippers. I dont see any thing wrong with strippers if that is your thing, they are just there to make a living and to brighten your party up. As your fiance I think you should talk to him about it, but not to press the issue because then he may get defensive lilke you dont trust him , take it from someone who knows.
Angie
Posted by Angie; updated 11/06/02