New Jersey Beach Wedding Locations

My fiancee and I are getting married next May and we are looking for a location on the jersey shore but it is so hard to find one. None of the search engines bring up anything and I am getting so frustrated. We both have a love of the water, but don`t want to go out of state because we have too many family and friends here in New Jersey and we dont want them to have to travel. Please help our beach dream wedding come true by giving us some pointers or tips onwhere to find beach wedding locations on the Jersey shore. Thank you so much.