Who Should Pay For Parents 5oth Anniversary
My parents 5oth anniversary is this summer and I, my 3 sisters and my brother are planning the event. However, they are not very happy dividing the costs between the 5 of us. I do not think that $ 650.00 divided between the 5 of us is asking for much, considering how much are parents have done for us. Anyhow, I just wanted to know if it is ethical to ask for family and friends to sponsor our parents 50th anniversary. They want to ask for sponsors and I feel very embarrassed by this, because I feel we should pay for the entire cost. Am I wrong? Please help!!!
Posted by Ruth; updated 01/24/06
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I am also helping my dad plan thier 50th to surprise my mom. He is paying for the hall and food. I thought my adult brothers would help split the invitations, cake, DJ, and a few center pieces. They are whining about the cost and it makes me sick! No way should friends and family be asked to help split the cost!
Posted by tracey; updated 06/07/06
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Absolutely all the siblings should chip in. Think of all the birthday parties, and who knows what else our parents have done for us over the years. Dig deep into those pockets for one day to show your love & appreciation and quite frankly in this day & age sheer amazement that anyone makes it to 50 anymore!!
Posted by deb; updated 01/07/08