I CAN`T STOP FIGHTING, WHAT`S WRONG WITH ME?
I know this isn`t the right spot to put this post but I just have to get it out. I am 23, with a son, a husband, and a great job, and I am still carrying on like I`m in high school. I fell out with a girl that I`ve known for years (we always fist fight, then get back friends). It`s getting worse because now she`s including my child in her "he say, she say". Then theirs my husbands brothers girlfriend. There are a few more, which is the reason why I`m about to explode. I am accumilating more and more "ememies". Some of them go out of their way to try to be my friend, and for some reason I feed off of that and keep the fued between us going. I know it has to be me because it can`t be EVERYBODY else. I used to always be in fist fights. I haven`t been in one in years but whenever I used to fight the girls I didn`t like, after I beat them up, I get over it and am ready to be their friend again. So if I fight and get my anger out I`m over it, if I don`t physically fight then I can stay mad at them FOREVER... What`s wrong with me?
Any suggestions on who I should talk to or what I should do? I know I need some real professional advice but what`s your opinion, is there anyone out there like me?
Posted by FIGHT-A-LOT; updated 12/28/05
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Fight-A-Lot,
Look, Baby, we might have a little bit of advice on that. I would suggest you seek professional help but if you are low on income, just e-mail us and we`ll help you through you`re problem. I must get to know a little bit about your past first, then you must tell me a little bit about your present. I have had several friends come to me with these kinds of problems and somehow, I have always managed to pull them through. All you really need is to trust yourself and others. Believe that you can change. Don`t say, "i can`t change" because you can. Anyone can. So, honey, if you need anything, like i told you, you can just e-mail me. I am not a counselor or anything of the sort, but believe me, I can help. I shall be awaiting your reply.
My e-mail address is brownbitch08@hotmail.com
Feel free to e-mail me anytime, anyday.
Posted by Elo; updated 02/08/06
