Amount Of Cash Wedding Gift

What is the proper cash gift to give at a wedding for a family member and/or a more casual friend. We have usually given $100 but were recently advised we should be giving $250 at least. Does the amount given relate at all to the oppulence of the wedding itself?
Posted by Robert Hofman; updated 12/27/05

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I`m glad to hear that it`s up to me. I try to take into account whether the couple is paying the bills or a well-off Dad. With caterers running $100 to $150 per person, we try to cover the cost of our meal if the bride and groom are picking up the tab-- and put $200 to $300 in a card.
Posted by Bill Patton; updated 05/04/07