Money Gift Giving

What is the standard amount to give if you know the mother of the bride but not the bride or groom?
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If you are a single divorced mother of the groom what is an appropriate amount of money to give the couple as a wedding gift. I am paying for the rehearsal dinner and drinks at the reception.
Posted by Sue; updated 10/01/02

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My secretary has invited my husband and myself to her daughters wedding. We would like to give money as a wedding gift. How much is appropriate for a boss and wife to give?
Posted by Debbie; updated 03/04/03

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I have a wedding reception my husband and I will be attending this weekend. The people are newer friends of ours who live in our apartment bldg. The wedding is at a church hall. Buffet style. What is an appropriate dollar amount to give as a gift in our card?
Posted by Deanna; updated 11/03/03

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I would say how much can you afford? Also another way to look at it is what does the average gift cost? You could give the equilelent. I dont think there is a standard amount, just what you feel is right, they are not going to be upset at any on amount they get, it is nice of you for giving anything!
Posted by nicole; updated 11/03/03

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Instead of Cash you might want to get them something off their registry.
Tami
Posted by Tami; updated 11/03/03

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What is an appropriate amount of money to give as a wedding gift from my husband and myself. It`s for our good friends daughter and I know that the dinner is $150 a person.
Posted by carmelart; updated 11/04/03

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Give what you can afford and what you are comfortable with giving. Often, a `standard` (and I use that term quite loosely) is based on the amount per plate of food that guests can estimate. However, that doesn`t mean you have to spend that much on a gift or give that amount of money.

I know of several people who have gone to weddings that were quite expensive events yet they didn`t have much money -- they opted to make the B&G a gift.

Again though, it all goes back to A. What you can afford and B. What you are comfortable giving.
Posted by Kay; updated 11/04/03

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The amount of your gift has NOTHING to do with the cost of your food at the wedding. It has everything to do with what you can afford and what you want to give.
Posted by Linda; updated 11/05/03