Best Man Changes His Mind

The best man said he couldn`t come out to the wedding, 3 months later after the wedding party has been coordinated, he decides to come out--2 weeks before the wedding. Should he replace another wedding member (the bride`s brother) or should the groom find a new position for him?
Posted by Carol; updated 11/15/05

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I would have to go with suggesting the groom find a new position. I know down the long run this wishy- washy friend may or not be in the groom`s life....but a brother is forever. I would have to say brother wins! I had a similar dilema with my wedding and my fiancee and I decided to have his brothers stand next to him. Plus it is a great way to have the soon to be brother in law grow closer to the groom and really fell a part of his sister`s wedding
Posted by Jody; updated 11/15/05