Kids At Weddings

I`m on the other end of the etiquette question with kids. I have two small children (1 & 3). I am a bridesmaid in the wedding. The wedding is out of town - we will have to fly there. We have no one here at home to leave our kids with for an overnight trip. The bride has asked me not to bring my children to the wedding or reception, but has not offered up a children`s room or anything of that nature. Also, other children (family / ring bearers / etc) are going to be at the wedding so it`s not a completely exclusive "no kids" wedding. What should I do?