My 14th B-Day!

Hey everyone!
Im gonna be turning 14 in april and i wanna have a HUGE bash. I want it to be soemthign that no one will forget. But i alson want it to be formal. Like on my super sweet sixteen on mtv. I want to have it a black and white party but im going to be dressing in red.......( so everyone knows who i am)........does anyone have any ideas for places to go in lancaster, pennsylvania to have it at. And on a good budget?
Please tell me asap!!!
Thanks!