Am I To Young
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 mounths he`s fixing to be 18 and i am 16. He says that he wants to get married but every time i say anything to him he gets all quite.he`s my first love. I want to get married so does he but he says that were to young.
Posted by brittany; updated 09/28/05
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I dont think that there is an age limit on being in love. You may love him but if you do then you will still love him in 2 years. I started planning my wedding when i was 17. I was going to be married when i was 18. I bought everything (including a $1000.00 dress) then two weeks before i was to get married we broke up. Then i was stuck with a lot of wedding stuff that i will never use. Im older and wiser now and i realize that he never wanted to marry me nor did I want to marry him it was just exciting to talk about and plan that stuff. I am now 25 and have been with me F/H for 5 years and we are getting married next arpil. My point just wait if its true love then you will still be in love when your older, out of school, and financially secure.
Posted by cassie; updated 09/28/05
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Brittany;
As Cassie said, there is no time limit for love or getting married. I just turned 20 In August and am currently planning my wedding with the love of my life... I have only been with him for close to 2 months. The thing is... You know when it is right and what is right for your life. My F/H and I have been trough many things in our lives and had to mature very quickly... We have been through many relationships and both have children. I am currently in med school and he is a very good job. My point is.. If you feel it is right, follow your heart. If you have doubts it`s not a good sign. Remember that you can always break an engagement but a marriage is for life. I wish you the best of luck. You can e-mail me if you need any advice or someone to talk to
Isabelle (izzylace@hotmail.com)
Posted by Isabelle; updated 09/30/05
