My Fiancee Left Me!!! Help (sob)
My fiancee and I dated for 5 years before I proposed to her. Two weeks ago she received the insanely beautiful custom-made ring I bought her. I love her more than life itself!
All the sudden she comes in and tells me that she is leaving me, gives me back the ring and walks out!! I never hit her or cheated on her, I always treated her like a queen. I have been just finishing my computer engineering degree so money has been tight for the last couple months, and I know that is part of the issue.
I have been bawling and throwing up all day long. I just didn`t see it coming, and I don`t understand! I`m hurting so bad, I feel like I have no chance of getting through this or getting her back. Please, someone, just give my some conforting words or advice...
Ryan
Posted by Ryan; updated 09/26/05
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Ok, the rebound thing was a bad idea. I miss my ex more than ever, and feel further away from her than ever. Plus now I have some girl all interested in me and I am pretty much unable to feel anything for her. She says I seem like I am falling, but the truth is that I`m just letting go...
Posted by Ryan; updated 09/26/05
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If she was with you because of the money thats bull. If she loved you she would be with you through hard times and easy times. I understand that you are upset I would be too.
Believe me I was dating the love of my life and being with him was amazing. And I thought we would get married because we have been together for almost 3 years. Oh man and then one day he come over and told me he didn`t want to be with me anymore and I don`t know why. I mean like you I have never cheated on him. And I mean you could see the love in our relationship. Everyone thought we belonged together. But maybe not.
I am really sorry about that happening to you. I know what you are going threw. And I can tell you it will take awhile but you will get threw it. I promise.
Posted by Brandy; updated 09/26/05
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I still love her, it`s automatic.
This is not life. This is a bad dream I can never wake up from.
I have been hanging out with the chef girl. I asked her to slit my wrist, and she took out a big knife and made a huge gash across my forearm. LOL I bled for hours.
"He who loves the more is the inferior and so must suffer..."
-Thomas Mann
Posted by Ryan; updated 10/02/05
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Go check yourself into a hospital you truly need help, If this is a ploy for attention go anyway you still need help.
Posted by julie; updated 10/03/05
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Your a friggin loser go F*CK off you crazy psycho! I hope your ex moves far away from you and you never hear from her again. GET A LIFE LOSER.
Posted by translator; updated 10/06/05