Isabelle
Posted by Candy; updated 09/23/05
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I recently met the man of my dreams.. We have only been dating for a month... I love him more than anything in the world and I know he feels the same about me. We have talked about spending the rest of our lives together and getting married. Things are going very fast in our relationship but it seems so right. He is planning on asking me to marry him within the next month. Last week he even went to my parents house and asked for their blessings. :o) I am 20 years old and he is 24... We both have children and a great life. I am not second guessing myself and our relationship in anyway.. I would just like input on what the "right thing" to do is... I have heard that it`s to soon but I have also heard that You know when it is right. "Why wait till tomorrow when you don`t know if tomorrow will ever be" That`s what I go by... Please let me know that my feelings are right and I`m making the right decision for myself and my daughter. Thank you
Isabelle izzylace@hotmail.com
Posted by Isabelle; updated 09/23/05
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Isabelle,
I cannot give you advise on not knowing you both. However, I would like to ask..."Do you want to wait?
If so, he should love you enough to abide by your wishes...true love knows no time limit to when things should happen. As for being to young, There have been many wives at younger ages...I think it depends on your maturity, and where your faith is planted. Your daughter needs a father...that is the other question, Is he going to be the good father that your daughter needs?
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Posted by Candy; updated 09/23/05
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Hi Candy;
I have no doubt in my mind that this is what I want to happen. I love him like no other. As for the maturity level... We are both high on the scale. We have been through so many life changing experiences that made us grow up fast and mature quickly... He has a good job and is already supporting My daughter and I. I am currently in college in the Bachelor of nursing program. My boy friend treats my daughter like his own... They both love eachother deeply. That`s one of the reasons I love him so. He is wanting to adopt her when we get married. I feel like I am ready to move on in my life and start it. Suprisingly enough my parents did give him their blessings... They saw in him what I see.
Posted by Isabelle; updated 09/23/05