Wedding Reception Party After Private Wedding

We are having a small wedding with just immediate family at his parent`s house. Then we are having an outdoor wedding party same day at our residence.
I want to get married and after we are married and leave his parent`s have guest already at our party to greet us on arrival. Can you help me word that for invitations. Thank YOu,
This is not our first marriage and he has daughter that lives with us and we raise and i want her name in it also and we are in process of adopting a son which I would also like mentioned. I have no kids by birth but by love i have two. Please help!!!!