Does Any 1 Else Have A Hard Headed Fiance?

My fiance is so dang hard headed. God knows i love him to death but he`s the quite type and dont like crowds so that mix well with the huge wedding were having. He says hes not dancing in front of all those ppl which dont need to be invited any way nor is he going to party it up at all which i meen thats part of it you know the fun and relaxing part of that stressful day, and pictures lord lord he want smile just kinda stands ther with a umcomfortable look on his face. If it was up to him id be in the courthouse friday morning married by noon and then on my way to some chezzy motel so he can get a golfing weekend in also called our honey moon. Any one else in my shoes or do you all have prince charmings????