November Birthday NEED HELP!

Ok well I`m turning 16 in November. And I have no idea what to do. I love to play paintball and snowboard..and so most of my friends are guys....it`s hard for me to come up with a ttheme or even a type of party i want when i have mostly guy friends!!!! I live in Michigan. And I`m thinking of doing mabe a huge hotlel/dance party thing, inviting just everyone i know. If anyone has ANY ideas please let me know, and if you know of any good hotel recomendations or anything!! PLEASE HELP!! email me at Sunshinecali17@hotmail.com