MOH - Grrrr

I am having a problem and need some advice. I recently got married last month and since a cpl days after my wedding, my MOH will not talk to me at ALL. It all kind of started a few days before the wedding. We had my bachelorette party (which only the people she liked got inviations it turns out - she claimed that 25 of the 30 invites got lost in the mail), she had decided to have disposable cameras and divide the groups (which there was 7 of us cuz no one got their invites!) and give them each a camera and send them on a treasure hunt and everyone had to have their pics taken in front of whatever it was that they were searching for. They were also given books to write letters in to me (the bride-to-be). She told everyone she would take the pics and get them developed and put into a "memory book" for me, it would be given to me at the rehearsal. So a cpl days before the wedding, i asked her how the pics turned out and she told me she didn`t have time or money to get them done. So offered to send her money so she could pick up the pics (since she said they were in getting developed) and she told me no, it was her gift to me. So I let it go. The wedding goes by and she pulled a lot of crap then too, such as not showing up the next morning for gift opening, she told me she would be right down and she never showed up, turns out she checked out of the hotel and went home. Never heard from her after that (she lives 4 hrs away too). I left her several msg`s, and e-mails, I was worried about her and told her that. Turns out after talking to one of her other friends, she was just ignoring me. Long story short, she sent me very rude e-mails after finding out I was checking on her with her friend, telling me that she wasted her time with her friends and family to be in my wedding and how no one liked me but her and blah blah blah. Just mean stuff. She still has not got me my pictures from the party or will send me the books that people wrote to me. She told me I may get them someday when I get them. She will not tell me why she is mad at me or anything, will not return my calls or e-mails. Now one of the girls that was a bridesmaid in the wedding got an inviation to a party that my MOH is having (candle party) - which of course with the MOH living 4 hrs away and with her meeting her only once, she is not going. I know she sent it just to get my blood boiling even more knowing that the girl would tell me about it. Anyone have any ideas on how I can get my pictures. The only thing I can come up with of why should could be mad is she is jealous that I am happily married, but never once was that rubbed in her face, I spent almost ALL my time at the wedding with her and everything and now she treats me like this.