Should I Let One Of My Old Friends Be In My Quinceanera?

Okay well i have a friend erica and her quinceanera is in december and it`s in mexico and i can`t be in it cause my parents don`t agree that i should miss a week of school and travel to mexico alone. So i can`t be in it! well my quinceanera is in june and i didn`t want to ask erica to be in it for reasons cause for a half a year we didn`t really talk cause she got a job and was haggin out with some of our other friends and i was with some other friends too. Well this year we got alot of classes together and so now we talk more and i was talking to my other friend olivia about my quinceanera and erica was telling me oh that her man better be fine or wut ever and i guess she thought she was gonna be in it.and she doesn`t like my escort she`s always telling me why did you pick him and stuff like and it gets me stressed sometimes i don`t know if i should ask her if she wants to be in it or wut i don`t know wut to do or wut to say. Can someone pleaz help me?
Posted by Vanessa; updated 09/02/05

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I dont think u should get her, jus tell her u already had everything planned out and that u didnt think that she would want to be in cause u werent talking for a while. Cause if she`s already giving u stress now imagine how she`s going to be when u show her ur dress and the damas dresses and then she`s going to be all stupid during ur practices and just criticizing everything u do.
Posted by CLAUDIA; updated 09/09/05

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Its up to you if you want her in it or not. I had a friend, she was like my best friend and we stopped talking for half a year almost the whole year and i was thinking of not putting her in 15, but then i rememberd how much fun we had together the past 2 years and shes one of my best friends even though we dont see eachother or even talk, i ended up putting her in my 15, but since then we havent talked, but she will always be one of my best frends.....so its up to you and your feelings........
Posted by -beautiful-; updated 09/12/05

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I agree with cloudia, if she`s critisizing u on stuuf i wouldnt have her, i dont even think thats a good friend to be honest with you, i had i friend like that once and i told her that if she was like that i wouldnt be her friend anymore and she stoped cause if they really want to be your friend they`ll stop and be nicer!!! good luck on your quince
Posted by eirka; updated 09/12/05