Baby Showers

I am almost at my due date. I live far away from friends and family. I live in an area where I do have some friends, but not like home. I have had four people offer to throw me a baby shower (1 long distance /3 locals) . I know people have their own life. I am aware of things happen that you cannot control. However, no one through me a shower. It really hurt my feelings. Do I say something? I know I cannot throw one for myself. Should I just let it go? I know if the shoe was on the other foot what I would do. I would never tell someone that I am throwing them a shower and then not do it. I keep thinking I must have done something. However, these people do not know each other. What would you do?
Very confused