Does My Fiance Really Want To Get Maried????

My fiance and I have been dating for 5 years now and we`ve been engaged for 7 months. Ater 7 months we still have not come to a decision on a location. You see, he wants to be involved with the planning which is really nice. I love it, however since he in involved now and wants to have a say in it we cant agree on anything!!! I have seriously been shopping for 7 months with him. I feel burned out and Its getting to the point where Im begining to hate it. We both have seen just about every location where we live. I could write a book on it if i wanted to. Anyhow ok so now you say, well why dont you guys just elope or have a tiny simple wedding? I have brought up that idea to him and he says no! We have to have something memorable. If it were all up to me It would have been taken care of it already. Everytime I show him new ideas theres something wrong with them, too expensive, too far, blah blah blah. Im beginning to think maybe he doesnt want to marry me...???? I know he loves me though. I just dont know how to get him to stop being so picky. Please help me Im going crazy!!!!!!!
Posted by nancy; updated 08/04/05

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You have to talk to him. Basically lay it out on the table. If he wants to be so picky, let him do all the planning. Ask him what he envisions, and what his ideal location is. If he can`t come up with some answer, theres a reason to worry. Good luck.
Posted by Katie; updated 08/04/05