My Mom Needs Help Alot Of It

Where do i start my mom who is 75 a diabetic, along with alot of other ailments owns a home that i my 7 year old and fiance live in , she has always done for others we try to help do things but now she needs help she has always been there for others she had 9 children of her own and also took in foster children . She was always there for all of us and neioghbors and also alot of strangers. Would walk with holes in her shoes so some child of her own or a strangers child could have a new pair of shoes she has always givin of herself. And now at 74 she bought this house and had some money for another room and bathroom to be added on well to make a long story short the man that added the exstension never finished the job me and my boyfriend have been trying to get things done but we have been repairing things that he had messed up so bad and of course the money has ran out . Again she lent money to my brother so he could buy his house and he never paid her back she is on social security and we give her some money every month things are really tight . We live in a great neighborhood. But our house looks like hell. I could go on and on . If there is someone out there please call me get in touch we are at our wits end i would love to make the house look great and make here feel great in her last years thanks so much.........