After The Wedding

Tanesha, quit hateing, just because you cannot afford a wedding does not mean that you have the right to rain on someone else`s parade. First off why would you have unpaid wedding bills? pay as you go. This is the problem with society now you think you can use credit cards to purchase and do things you really can`t afford and later on try to figure out how your going to pay the credit card company off. I don`t primarily mean to come off as being rude but i take it that you may not be able to afford to have a wedding because of whatever finacial situation you may be in but everyone is not and if you are a young girl do not keep this mantality in your brain you can have whatever it is that you want out of life just work hard for it. Remember you only live once if the man of your dreams come along and wants to marry you then go ahead and do it the way you would like too and also can afford. We are only here for today and not promised a tommorow so stop trying to live your life based on what tommorrow may or may not bring.

I cant tell, lady !!!!! these are things that you need to think about.
It is not hating it is thinking about that house,car or anything that takes time to aquire. It seem to me that you are reacting and not acting as a adult but a person who will be spending someone eles money for your dream day.
So before you call someone a hater think about what if you wanted a dream wedding with the man of your dreams but you or your family were not financally able would you want someone to say that your a hater.
Be an adult everyone doesnt think the way you do.
Peace!!!