MY CUZ IS DRIVING ME CRAZY

Your cousin is jealous. Why would she tell you all of these things or take it to such extremes? She is jealous and does not want you to shine. She feels that you are going to have a much better party and she may be able to tell by the ideas that you have already. Inform your cousin that you know that it is hard to plan a party but you do not need that jealousy around you. Let her know that she is not upsetting you one bit and tell her that her party was nice but that yours will be equally as nice if not better as you are adding your own special touches. Do not allow her to break your spirit. God Bless and enjoy your day.

Hey. Dont let her get you down. Use her comments as a motivation to make your quince great. Tell her that planning this party is stressful and you dont need her nagging you. Tell her you realy need her support and that her quince was great and since she already had hers, maybe she could help you plan an awsome quince. But dont worry, its your special day to shine, just enjoy it and dont pay attention to her. Good luck and i hope i could help.

Hey gurl, I just wanted to say that your cuz seems very envious of you and that’s y she is giving you a hard time. To me it seems like her Quinceanera sucked and she doesn’t want yours to be better than hers. Don’t let her get you down. I know that this can be stressful believe me I know. I am going to be having a Quinceanera next year only I have to share it with my tia who is only 4 months older than me (so consider your self lucky because you get that whole night to shine for your self, but I have to share mine.) She is always turning down my ideas and stuff like that. I know it’s not the same situation for you but to me it seems like it. Anyways just let your cuz know that it’s not bothering you for what ever it is that she is saying to you (even if it is cause maybe she will eventually lay off) I hope this info helps just a little. Good Luck in October, remember it is your night to shine and no one can take that away from you (not even your cuz.)

HEY DONT WORRY YOUR CUZ IF PROBABLY INSECURE THAT MAYBE YOUR PARTY IS GOING TO BE BETTER THAN HERS. SHE IS PROBABLY WORRIED THAT PEOPLE ARE GOING TO SAY HOW MUCH NICER YOUR WAS. NEXT TIME SHE STARTS BUGGING YOU JUST TELL HER TO STOP, THAT ITS NONE OF HER BUSINESS AND AS LONG AS YOU HAVE FUN IN YOUR PARTY THAT IT DOESNT MATTER HOW IT TURNS OUT.