Renewal Of Vows

My husband and I have been married for 14 yrs. We have always talked about renewing our vows. Lately we have been discussing it more seriously, possible planning to do it within 2-3 yrs My problem is...we had a small traditional once. Even though I only have one pic. To show, because I lost my wedding book. Now we would like to have a nice ceremony, including things we had to sacrifice before. In 2001 our bond as a family grew with the founding of leukemia in our son. I really want to renew our vows...the whole 9 yards(so to speak).not fairytelish, however nice elegant, very spirtual, with attendents(whom have grown with us) & the standing of our kids 2 boys : 2 girls beside. I also want the orginal wedding party recognize ,either escorted down the aisle with special seating or mention on program. It would have been nice to have a lawn ceremony, however we married in Jan. So its cold then. I really would appreciate some imput, to if this a bit to dreamy for a 2nd wedding? How should I go about planning? And just imformation in general