Renewing Of Vows After 10 Years

Hi all my name is Kristi and my husband and I will be having our 10th wedding anniversary on august 12,2005 and we want to renew our vows but the problem is we never really had the kind of wedding that we wanted so I guess Im wondering if there is anyone who would know or could tell me how to get a wedding for free we have three beautiful children together and we were both very young when we got married our parents took it upon themself to plan our wedding and now that we are older we`d like to have something a little nicer I guess you can call us a charity case if you can help please let me know.
Thanks
Kristi