My Fiancee Left Me!!! Help (sob)
My fiancee and I dated for 5 years before I proposed to her. Two weeks ago she received the insanely beautiful custom-made ring I bought her. I love her more than life itself!
All the sudden she comes in and tells me that she is leaving me, gives me back the ring and walks out!! I never hit her or cheated on her, I always treated her like a queen. I have been just finishing my computer engineering degree so money has been tight for the last couple months, and I know that is part of the issue.
I have been bawling and throwing up all day long. I just didn`t see it coming, and I don`t understand! I`m hurting so bad, I feel like I have no chance of getting through this or getting her back. Please, someone, just give my some conforting words or advice...
Ryan
Posted by Ryan; updated 06/15/05
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Hey,
Kathleen, I have thought a lot about your question, and yes, I think I would take her back if the opportunity presented itself. I still love her, and I still think the relationship is salvageable, if she wanted that. I wrote her another email (that I didn`t send). This one was very "def". I was very, very tempted to send this one, it had a lot of stuff I really think she should hear.... But in my last correspondence I promised not to email her anymore, so thats out. I also think that if there is any chance for her to come back, the best thing for me to do is just to give her time and space. If she wants me back, she`ll contact me. Your thoughts on that?
Posted by Ryan; updated 06/15/05
