Amor Secreto
Okay. Yo tengo un problema que me esta molestando. Okay, por empezar, tengo 14 anos, soy cristiana, y normalmente me gusta a alguien. Lo unico que me molesta es que el (no mensiono nombres por respeto) tiene 21 anos (aunque aveces se comporta como si tuviese 16 anos). Somos amigos, y el va a mi iglesia. Estamos en el grupo de jovenes. Lo bueno es que alli en la iglesia lo conoci, y no en otra parte. Pero no se que hacer. Hasta le he pedido al Senor que haga algo, pero no. No se que hacer.
El es de El Salvador (de Santa Ana, como mi mama). El es bien jugeton y juega con mi mama, y es agradable con mi familia. El es muy guapo, muy amistoso, y lo bonito es que el prefiere servirle al Senor embez de ser un muchacho de la calle. Canta (yo tambien), me friega y yo a el, y me agrada mucho. Pero no le he dicho nada. Ni mi madre sabe como me siento. Solo le he dicho al Senor a mi misma. Ahora, no se que hacer.
Posted by abbey; updated 06/14/05
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Mira Abbey,
Yo a tuvido esa problema, pero ya se me quito. No se bastante espanol. Tu debes de dicirle que tu sientes algo por el iluego aver que dice. No importa la edad cuando tengas 18 anos. Dile y alamejor el te ciere a ti como tu lo cieres a el.
Carla
Posted by Carla; updated 06/14/05
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Hey, carla, do you speak english? does this help more? well, if you do, just to tell you, i haven`t of course told my mom about this. But we had a talk about sex and relationships once, and she said it was okay for me to like anybody, but as long as i didn`t tell the person. Just like several girls at my church have silly little girl crushes on the older guys as well. But i promised her, so i don`t know what to do. If you can, you can add more advice in english. Thanks anyway.
Posted by abbey; updated 06/15/05
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Well you know what? I am not that much of an advice giver. My mom tells me the same thing. I think you really should tell him because you never know if he likes you. I really do think you should express your feelings and tell him what you think about him. Tell me sooner or later what you think of the advice I give you. Bye!!!!!!
Carla
Posted by Carla; updated 06/15/05
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Thanks carla, but i really couldn`t. Good advice, but too risky for my nature. And it turns out i don`t like him anymore. I knew it was just a girly crush and a phase that i had to go through. Now im waiting for the guy God has for me, and i know i can wait. Im too young now. And besides, the guy i used to like likes another girl. She`s cool and all, and im happy for him. Thanks anyways and God bless you.
Posted by abbey; updated 07/16/05
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Hey guys what`s up? Pues I THINK U SHOULD NEVER TELL A GUY U LIKE HIM UNLESS HE LIKES U 2... UM I USE 2 LIKE THIS GUY... WELL I STILL DO BUT AS U KNOW WE GOT OUT OF SCHOOL SO WE BOTH GRADUATED EXCEPT WERE GOING 2 DIFFERENT HIGH SCHOOLS... BUT IM STILL EXCITED TO MEET NEW AND HOT GUYS IN HIGH SCHOOL
Posted by Brenda; updated 07/16/05
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Hola yo tengo la misma problema el tambien tiene 21 anos. Tambien es guapo, amable pero fuma y toma. Yo no se que hacer (??) es mi amigo y le a dicho que lo quiero y que estoy obsesionada con el. No te dea pena decirle como sientes. Adios
Posted by analiese; updated 07/20/05
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Um guess what you guys!!!!!!
The guy actually agreed to be my chambelan for mah quince!!!!! if anyone is interested, i have my quince pictures. Just leave your email and ill send them to you. Peace!!!!
Posted by abbey; updated 03/22/06
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Yea gurl like the other people said well its ok to like him and evrythin but still i`ve had that same problem but the guy was 19 and me 14 less age diference but still i went to mexico this past december and i realized i really liked him. Him and my cousin are like really tight so i`d always get to see but one thing my parents didnt approve well my mom actually. I kno he in virginia right now and i really really miss him but he hasnt asked my cousin about me or anythin after sayin he cared about me but oh well. You kno i still havent gotten over him completely but i kno i will find some one better sooner or later.
And yea canu send me your pics i need help for my 15 in october
Angelfacecutie90@aol.com
Posted by Judith; updated 03/25/06
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HEY
WELL I LIKE THIS GUY TO BUT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND AND I THINK HE`S MESSING WITH ONE OF MY FRIENDS TOO. HE IS REALLY CUTE BUT HE`S 22 YRS. I TALK TO HIM ALL THE TIME HE KNOWS I LIKE HIM SO HE MESSES WITH ME ALOT, SHOULD I GIVE IN OR SHOULD I IGNORE HIM?
Posted by INOCENCIA; updated 04/27/06
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Listen....forget all these girls telling you not to tell him...okay..if you tell him, there is the posibility that he breaks ur hearts, but if u dont tell him theres always the posibility that ur breaking his heart...and if he doesnt like you...forget him....you`ll find better!
Posted by Nicole; updated 04/27/06
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U know what? lo importante es que no ensenes malicia. Dont flirt. The trick is to get him to notice u without trying too hard. Dont give in. Kinda like playing "hard to get". Being friendly is the way to go. I do that now and there are some guys that are kinda after me now. The guy i used to like even stares at me. Cuz like i give a sunday school class, and then him and his friend stare at me through a window that separates the kids class from the youth class and they look at me all the time. Its creepy, but i try my best to ignore it. Dont totally ignore him, just dont take him seriously. It could be that he is just teasing you. Watch out and just be yourself.
Posted by abbey; updated 04/27/06
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Yeah I guess you guys are right but I just had my Quincenea and he was my chambelan principle and he was so good at it he helped alot at the party and I think my mom even likes him. He just started calling her suegra. But I also have another guy after me he`s asked me out but I don`t really know what to say. I feel bad though cause their both friends and the second guys eally Jealous . But their both calling my mom Suegra. What do I do?
Posted by Inocencia; updated 05/02/06
