50th Birthday

My mother will turn 50 on June 17th, this is also the day of my parents 30th wedding anniversary!
TWO PROBLEMS,,,Mom is dead against a party, and my father is recovering from a serious back surgery, thus he is unable to move around much.
How can I make her (and Dad) feel special, even though she doesn`t want a big deal made?
-Shamby
Posted by shamby; updated 05/28/02