Military Wedding

Hi,
Please don`t laugh! I feel totally clueless.My fiance asked me to marry him 2 months ago as WE had just
Found out that we are going to have a baby.
I have always wanted a traditional wedding.
My husband to be respects this but REALLY wants a
Military Themed wedding.I respect his work and would like to honour this but the truth is I need help.I dont know what to do, the protocol ,favors to use what to dress my 2 bridesamidses in etc. I would appreciate
Any help on ideas,music to dance to , reception ideas? Yes you can now see how clueless i am.Hoefully with everyones thoughts and ideas on Military weddings I can have the planning underway as he is away at the moment and we plan to get married in 3 months time.
Thank you everyone....Lyn.