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I hope this helps:

Each Quinceañera service may vary from congregation to congregation, but most include similar essentials:

• The priest or minister welcomes everyone to the ceremony with a prayer to ask God`s blessing.
• Selected scripture readings from the Old and New Testaments are read based on the "theme" that the quinceañera, her family and the priest/minister have discussed prior to the ceremony. Often times, the court shares in the reading of these scriptures.
• The quinceañera and/or her court often renew their baptismal vows during the ceremony.
• A thanksgiving prayer or dedication is said by the quinceañera, offering her now more mature, adult life as a woman to God`s service.
• The quinceañera may light her baptismal candle during the ceremony.
• A change of shoes is sometimes brought: changing shoes from flats to heels signifies her passage into young womanhood.
• During a Protestant ceremony, a presentation of 15 red roses is made to the girl herself. In Catholic ceremonies, roses are presented to the altar of the Virgin Mary. In a traditional Mexican Catholic service, the roses are given to the girl by one of her sponsors and together they place them on the altar of the Virgin Mary.
• A blessing to the quinceañera is demonstrated in the presentation of five gifts from her family or sponsors:
1. A rosary or Bible and prayer book to keep the word of God in her life.
2. The crown, which designates her as a queen before God.
3. The cross and necklace or medal which declares her Christianity.
4. A ring or bracelet which signifies the unending circle of God`s love.
5. Earrings remind her to hear God`s word.

Hey i see u r having some problems... I had them 2.... I am having my quince july 9th, 05 and well i got my 2 friends (who r white) 2 become damas and i had problems wit them paying but i am over it umm same with the tuxes y dont u email me at ... Chica14sg@aol.com..... And i will give u some suggestions okay see u later bye
~Sandy~