Bridesmaid Dilemma

Do you all think that I should have a bridesmaid in my wedding that had me in hers? I have someone who I don`t really want in mine but I feel bad becasue she had me in hers. I never felt like she really wanted me in her wedding, she just needed me to fill space. Any thoughts?
Posted by Alex; updated 03/21/05

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DO NOT have her in your wedding unless you really like her and want her to be a big part of your special day. This will be YOUR day and no matter who had you in their wedding, that doesn`t mean you have to have them in yours. Feelings may be hurt, but you want to always remember your wedding with only special friends and family in the wedding party... Don`t feel obligated!!! I was in the same situation and I asked a million people their opinion... Everyone said the same thing. Don`t settle for someone in your wedding that you don`t want to be there! Hope this helps! Good luck! :)
Posted by Coleen; updated 04/01/05