Sons BM

Hi, I have my son`s BM in just 1 month. I do not want to do the traditional candle lighting w/ a poem, any suggestions. I had my other sons BM just 3 years ago and 2 nephews within the past few months, the poems will b very similar. I thought of all holding hands and saying this is for all of u who have come today to help me celebrate this very special day in my life. Please respond as to whether u have another idea or think that this sounds like a good one.