Reception/Celebration

I am a 23 year old woman engaged now for 2 years (postponed 2x`s thanks to parents). My fiancee and I have decided to marry at my job, the church (for free). It will be during the week in the evening so we`re only inviting parents, siblings, and best friend. That Saturday we want to have a "celebration" instead of a "reception" people can where what they want! It`s still a particular time but all day event. I`m also having a moonwalk for the kids so they won`t be bored. It`s not a sit down affair, basically a backyard party. Will this turn out to be an event to remember for the good or for the bad? Basically will people think the whole thing was "bootleg"? Help
Posted by kaykay; updated 03/02/05

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I think that this sounds wonderful. It includes everyone, people will feel comfortable and the kids do not have to worry about running around in a reception hall, they will have fun activities as well. Sounds like a celebration for everyone and all will love it.
Posted by Kimi; updated 03/03/05

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I get so tired of peole on this site being negative and thrashing an idea because they don`t agree. Kay Kay I think your idea is great if it makes YOU happy. When I started planning my wedding I made one decision right of the bat . . . That was to make my FH and myself happy. I was not going to do or not do things because someone might think it`s tacky. It`s your wedding and you should celebrate it exactly how you see fit!!

I only have one suggestion. Make sure you get the word out or phrase a cute little poem so people will know it`s not the "traditional" sit down get dressed up type of party. That way no one will feel awkard if they show up overdressed.

Good luck and HAVE FUN!!
Posted by Janine; updated 03/03/05

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Thank you Kimi and Janine for your messages. I was afraid of how people would think of it but now I really feel like it will work. Being that I am only 23 years old my friends would feel more comfortable, including me b/c I`m not your typical "girly girl".
Janine, I do agree with what you said about the people who are always mean on this site. But it`s only b/c no one can see them, and some are only trying to be funny.
Posted by kaykay; updated 03/03/05

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I don`t see anything wrong with a casual backyard reception. If that`s what you like, then go for it. I`m sure the party will be a lot of fun.
Posted by Linda; updated 03/04/05

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It sounds like fun. I think your guests will have tons of fun at your celebration party. I know I might sound crass or greedy. But, if you expect wedding presents, I think you might want to get the idea across that party is to celebrate your brand new marriage. But I like the idea.
Posted by misty; updated 03/04/05