Gold Or Silver For A Fall Wedding

October 4, 2002 is the date. Its going to be a Friday evening wedding. We are going with the fall theme, pumpkins, leaves, browns, reds, oranges, etc... My girls are wearing dark chocolate brown and I will be wearing an "antique" colored strapless dress. While the boys will be wearing black tuxes. The problem is I dont know whether to go gold or silver. This goes for my unity candle holder, cake server, and anything else. I would like to go with only one of them so I can carry the color through out the wedding. Anybody have any ideas? Suggestions would be GREATLY appreciated!