Guest And Bridal Shower

I am giving a bridal shower for my niece and would like to invite a few relatives that will not be invited to the wedding. Is this appropriate since I am giving the shower. I realize that my niece wants to keep the wedding guest to a certain number. I do know that these guests would love to just make contact at the shower even if they are not invited to the wedding. Is this the proper etiquette? Thanx, Francine Jack
Posted by francine jack; updated 01/26/05