Quinceanera Problem

Well my problem is that i` ve always wanted a quinceanera, and I still do but I don`t know any guys except a few cousins and i don`t know who to have as my chambelan. And i don`t talk to them alot. And I can`t have damas because It`s going to be in Mexico, and i don`t have alot of friends there. Sometimes i think i should`nt i have a quinceanera b`cuz i don`t have a court of honor or a chambelan. But i really really want to have one. What should i do?