Confused On Where To Start
I`m getting married in August 7 1/2 months way, and im kinda confused where to start, and when to start. People tell me to to get the biggest things which are the chruch and the Hall, and I`ve done those things already, but when do i get my bridesmaids together to find dresses, and how many of them do i take? should i start buying stuff for centerpieces now? also how do i acount for people on food? if anyone can help me and is experianced please someone help me? thanks
Posted by JUNE; updated 12/27/04
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Posted by Connie; updated 12/28/04
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Well the first thing you need to do is decide your budget and what type of wedding you want. Large or small? Indoors or out? Casual or black tie? Color Scheme--White or Ivory? That kind of thing...the style of it.
You may think this is kind of silly, but when we first got engaged I was thinking HUGE formal wedding and my fiance was thinking small intimate gathering. So, it`s something every couple needs to sit down and talk about, if you haven`t already.
After you decide on your budget, now it`s time to spend the money!
Start with the big things...
Ceremony Venue
Reception Venue
Caterer
Baker
Photographer
Officiant
Musicians
Florist
Any Rental Items
Your Dress
After you`ve chosen your dress then go shopping for the Bridesmaids. Often you may want their dresses to compliment yours.
Guys Tuxes
Then get the accessories and tie up loose ends.
Really, you need to start planning now. 7 1/2 months is prime time, not too far..not too close.
Good luck!
Posted by Ideas; updated 12/28/04
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Oh, I meant to tell you...get your bridesmaids together now. If they have to order dresses it could take several months. Set a date to go shopping that most (if not all) of your bm`s can go with you.
About Food...That will depend on how many invites you sent out. Usually, you just guess really good (go through your guest list and estimate about how many will really come) and then when you get your RSVPs back you just let the caterer know.
Posted by Ideas; updated 12/28/04
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Thank you "ideas" for your "ideas" they really helped, now i have somewhere to start. I appreciate your help, and congrats on ur engagment.
Posted by JUNE; updated 12/28/04
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Have you tried an event or wedding coordinator? I came across http://www.cupidsgrandeur.com. Looks promising.
Posted by Julia; updated 12/29/04