Reception Site, Hudson Valley,NY/Danbury, CT

It`s not castle like, but I got married 3 years ago at the Interlaken in Salsbury/Lakeville, CT and it not only had plenty of places for people to stay and tons of charm in the outer accomodations but I got married outside by the lake across the street and had the reception under the tent that they keep up all summer that has access to an airconditioned room. The conference center like look of the outside enterance put me off till I went inside...
Also Troutbeck, in the same area was very nice and a good possibility. 200 is a lot, are you sure 200 will really come?
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