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Hi!My Name Is Maria Im Planning My 15nera.And I`m Looking For any ideas ya`ll might have on like the Walts or just things like that.And one other thing I don`t have a dad he passed away when I was 8.And well my uncle was going to take his place because well he was like a father figure for me,but he recently passed on so im really confused on to whom i should choose.My dad has alot of brothers but none that im actually close to.and i want to use my older brother because im really close to him and he is really speacial to me but i don`t want to hurt my dad`s family,so as you can see im kinda torn so if anyone has any advice please tell me.