Right Under The Nose

Then you should show and prove. He feels that you will never leave him so that is why it doesn`t bother him. You don`t need this and you surely don`t deserve this. HE doesn`t deserve you. As for breaking up a family, your sister did that already and you will continue to hold this against them both. If you haven`t moved passed it by now, then you need to either get over it, forgive them and live with it or get him out of your life and figure out what to do with the relationship with your sister and live your life to the fullest. You don`t have to take this, you choose to take this and because of it, he chooses to continue to disrespect you. It`s almost as if he is saying, "you`ll accept it and like it". Show your boys that you are better than that. What you are doing, is accepting it and they may feel that it is okay to do this to other women. You never know what children see that you may not have seen first. Just because you are just finding out about it, doesn`t mean that they didn`t know about it.